how to survive life: the tips and tricks

this is an advice book that helps you get through life it gives you tips on how to get through things.

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6. How To Deal With Rejection

 

Emma here (formerly Kacey, I changed my pen name)! 

This last week for me has been rubbish. And do you know why?

The guy that mattered most to me likes somebody else. It hurt so much I cried in public. To see Emma crying in public is a one-in-a-lifetime thing. 

It's not the first time it's happened. I'm probably the world's most rejected human being to be fair, and this is how I deal with it. 

First of all, cry. Cry as much as you need to. Let it all go. Lament. Wail. Bottling up your emotions is even worse than letting it all out. Even just sobbing in the school toilets will do. There are special chemicals in tears that calm you down when they sink into your skin. I have spent roughly an hour and five minutes of my life crying over my special boy. (because this isn't the first time he's broken my heart. The first time I cried for 25 minutes, the second time was 40.) 

Secondly, PLEASE, NO LOVE SONGS! They will only make you feel regretful and sad about your unrequited love. Listen to music that celebrates singleness, such as:

- Ridin' Solo by Jason Derulo

- Young, Single & Sexy by Rita Ora

- You're Not The One by Sky Ferreira 

There are probably other songs like these in existence, but those were the first I could think of. 

Do what you love. For you Movellians, it may be writing, but any hobby will do. This will keep your mind off the boy who obviously has no taste! 

Please don't be bitter. Sure, he doesn't like you, but that's not the be-all and end-all. This is food for thought: "The guy who's worth your tears will never make you cry." If he likes someone else, don't try and force your hate on her. You can't help who you're attracted to, right? There are billions of boys in the world who are probably better-looking and with a better personality then this guy. 

I hope this advice helps you. I really need to take some of it myself. You're prizes, girls, and you've just not found a winner yet. 

Oh, by the way, these tips will easily work if you love a girl too!

See you next time (oh, and don't forget to fan Tiggy!)

 

 

 

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