Love temperament is not destiny; Falling in love with the same soul after a break-up

Love temperament is not destiny;
Falling in love with the same soul after a break-up
Love is a dangerous journey for anyone, by nature some people’s emotions seem to be gravitated towards the positive love pole; and these people are naturally upbeat and easy-going while being engaged or committed in love. There is always a delight for the couples when they be together but when there is a fate to get separated due to life commitments or because of the nature of occupation, there develops a communication gap and this leads to mix-ups in emotions. But if this is understood by each other, then the couples can strongly prove that love is as powerful as fate.

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1. Love temperament is not destiny; Falling in love with the same soul after a break-up

               Love is a dangerous journey for anyone, by nature some people’s emotions seem to be gravitated towards the positive love pole; and these people are naturally upbeat and easy-going while being engaged or committed in love.  There is always a delight for the couples when they be together but when there is a fate to get separated due to life commitments or because of the nature of occupation, there develops a communication gap and this leads to mix-ups in emotions. But if this is understood by each other, then the couples can strongly prove that love is as powerful as fate. After twenty four years of struggle in personal life I made my mind to stand alone and pushed my-self away from my house to earn my own bread at the age of twenty five. Though we were school friends, we never realized that we loved each other. I once told her over the phone that “last night I had a dream and I could see both of us being married” She shook for a minute with complete silence and then thru a few mixed words filled with embracement and shock. I might have been sad as I missed my family members, but I learnt how to be alone, struggle for earnings by hiding all my depressed emotions.  I was living in a coastal area where, whenever I felt lonely I used to drive through the coastal lane and spend a few hours in the sea shore because there is nothing more beautiful than the Way Ocean refuses to stop kissing the shore lines. The sunset in the sea shore and “Ah the smell of the sand and salt was a heavenly feel to control my emotions. I’ve heard from my friends that long distance relationships are hard. Yes! It’s true but, distance doesn’t matter if both the souls are loyal to each other. After spending a year, we broke up and I knew the mistake was on my side. Most men don’t know how to deal with a women and I am one such because being a men it is not easy to enjoy job and love at the same time because the question “How am I going to keep her happy with the little earnings of mine? Has no answer. After we broke-up there was no communication and after a year of staying single with damages until healed we realized that we couldn’t get rid of the old memories filled with love, joy, lust and the feel of loyalty. We finally decided to meet each other as we planned through a text conversation as both of us had no guts to utter a word over the phone. Loneliness adds beauty to life and this is understood when the soul is burnt on sunsets. Dear Saturday you are my favourite as It was a beautiful Saturday evening, I was waiting in the mall for her and she appeared before my eyes and that was the moment when I realized something deep buried in me was the same buried in her. We just smiled at each other and walked into the shops with no sense of shopping just to see who would first speak. A few words sparkled from both the sides and slowly we managed to build conversations and a ton of obscene gestures. After eating snacks with mild conversations we managed to leave the mall as it was getting late for her. The place where I had to get my bus was quite near to the mall and her house was exactly opposite to it. We walked to the bus stand and she was there with me till the bus arrived. A few minutes later a bus which runs to my place arrived and I felt as if the day came to an end as I had to leave her at that place and could meet her only after a few months or even a year at times as we both lived and worked in different states. She looked into my eyes and told straight on my face, that communication is important and the lifeline for any relationship and I do expect the same. I could understand how bad I have been without even communicating with her for such a long time and I nodded my head with a few lines of promise. Happy days passed and one fine day we managed to tell out parents about the relationship we had and that was a very bold decision from both of us. She had so much of pressure from her family side as she was the only princess for her parents and they had an urge to get her married soon. She was able to tell her parents about me and I too managed to explain the same to my parents. Just like other parents, our parents refused but still we made sure we were not ready to sacrifice our love for any cost. Days passed by and a year completed and finally I was looking for a better job and got the expected job in the city where she lives. The reason for me coming out with memories is just to state it strong that love is not just for a purpose of being committed for lust but much beyond that with understanding and emotional attachment with each other. Love your story even if it hasn’t been a perfect fairy-tale because if you think you can make your life much more beautiful than a fairy-tale.

             Choose to be optimistic because it always feels better, hello July! Celebrating her birthday on July 11th this July baby is fun to be with as she takes so much concern on others feelings. Caring and over loving and always forgives and never forgets and above all very sentimental. She is not a princess, but a queen for her parents and was the last pet kid in her family with two elder brothers. I used to ask tell her that she was lucky enough to be pampered by the full bunch of family members and she used to tell yes!.

             She looked for two things when she was hired by a new employee: ambition and humility. Without a proven track record of initiative and ambition, it’s likely she became a contributor to the company – even the really smart, talented ones were jealous on her success. The reason why I have to mention this is because, hailing from a small school and a cosmopolitan city, she has flourished so bravely to stand alone and life alone to earn the bread for “herself and her family”. She worked in an organisation which has a strong culture and all her colleges were competing with each other to grab the leadership post including her. The compensation was fairly good, but the biggest downside was because of the fast pace environment she used to say “I feel so disconnected from the world, and I feel like no one even notices me or cares about me anymore” and I was flourishing in my career and dint find the time to address her feelings. Yes! I apologise, this minute i would like to tell her that, I am really sorry, I wasn’t strong that to understand your feelings as I was upset with my own sorrows and depression, but I very well know u had the patience to understand me and the situation in which I was. She was always by my side even when I tried to push her away‼. I remember a day she called me when I was at my work; I just picked up the call and asked what happened? And there was complete silence for a few seconds. I again asked her what happened. And then she replied in a very mild voice, nothing just wanted to talk with you! And I said at a very stern and lumpy voice, “I am busy let’s talk later”. I am not sure whether the fault was on my side or on her side or on the side of both of us we just started with a quarrel. That was when I left her a text stating “what happened to you, just leave a message” and she gave the same reply “Nothing” and I was a bit overloaded with work and replied to her text “OKAY”. After a few minutes she replied “want you take efforts to ask what the reason behind my depression was” and I felt as miserable as I realized something was wrong with me. Something kept me never good enough, and then said to my-self she is not a plastic doll you idiot! She loves you more than what she loves herself and why the hell you treat her so? But unfortunately it was my bad that I wasn’t able to call her back as I was completely engaged with my work. After being comfortable after arguments we were normal as we understood both were facing work pressure.  

             Days go by quickly as the job is always on the go. She used to say that she has learnt to never give up as there are many resources available to get her through the day. She even used to say that people at her workplace were great to work with and everyone was willing to help her get through the day in any way that they can. It was hard trying to meet so many RUSH deadlines, but with all the resources and people available, she was confident and she could accommodate her customer’s needs. Good place to learn - given responsibility she often said to console herself. Expectations were high and she used to work for long hours and weekend up-to 11pm when I used to text her, hi! Wassup! I feel so tired and my legs are paining like hell and I’ve just managed to put my legs into the bucket filled with some hot bucket and her reply would be the same. Sometimes when I used to call her, she never attended my calls as she was busy with Client meetings, report writing, data analysis, recommendation synthesis, team meetings, conferences, presentations and the hardest part was to successfully finish all these task in an environment filled with politics. The hardest part of her job was to know when to stop for the day and knowing how much work is too much. Her day can be as long as 12-15 hours as she had checkpoints on a checklist before diving into the work as she had to get the tax returns filed and checked by her team members. Oh lol I am giving the readers a clue! She is a tax analyst. But I have to specify my job role, yes I am a teacher and I teach Undergraduate Children in private University.  The majority of teachers are employed by primary or secondary schools, but I chose to teach college students as I can also learn from their side. Teachers also perform administrative duties, such as spending one period assisting in the library or monitoring students and I do much of mentoring work as I feel they are kids of mine. It’s not just teaching it’s more of parenting as being a teacher it’s my responsibility to make sure they lead a smooth life throughout the Under Graduation program without any physical and mental disturbance.

Tax analyst and Teacher, I feel it’s a fantastic combination. We have had many circumstances which tried to separate us but still the bond is strong, and it’s due to a perfect understanding between us. Though small separation is always a part of love life, true love is not a destiny it’s all about what we think and what we need and how we lead our life. Break up is just due to lack of communication, but the minds still think of each other. Dear lovers build firmness in love and break the destiny..

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