The other sex, the male, can be a very touchy subject. You have the jocks, nerds, populars, artsy boys, emos, goths, the sensitive's, the bad boys, the gamers, the weirdos, the pervs, the freaks, the cry babies, the drama freaks, the non-talkers, the gays. There's so many more, but lets leave it at that. We've all had our fair share of dates or relationships with the the other sex or gender. Not all being good ones. most being horrible or bad.
In the 50s guys would have a big thing planned to ask the girl out (pin her). Then he wouldn't get mad if she said no. Now-a-days the boy goes up to the girl and is like "Dat ass doe. Let me hit that?" Then girls say yes. Like what? If a guy said that to me I'd slap him across the face! but no, girls now a days take it as a compliment. Or they say no and the guy is like oh your just a hoe anyway. Then speard rumors about her that shes a bad girl. (More on the female gender later).
Me personally am dating someone. He is shy, and very smart, so lets call him a nerd. His name is actually Justin, ironic cause I love Justin Bieber. He's a very sweet boy, so nice, doesn't put me down, doesn't pressure me, and is just, well, sweet. He spoils me with gifts, compliments, I love you's, and kindness. He's one of those boyfriends that you never want to let go of, he's one in a million. One of those boys that make all the other boys look bad. I truly love him. He makes me happy when I'm sad, he makes me feel beautiful when I'm in sweats, hair in a bun, and no makeup on.
You have those boys that all they want from you is sex, or the popularity credit, or to be able to say that they have a girlfriend. then you have those guys that truly love and care about you. I've found one of those. I'm as happy as ever. Don't let any guy pressure you into something you don't wanna do. You don't deserve that, you deserve someone who buys you that necklace even though you told him a thousand times not to waste his money on you. Or someone that sends you goodnight texts every night before you go to bed. Someone who loves to be around you, not just for sex. Someone who will do what you wanna do, someone who has the same sensee of humor as you. Someone who loves you.
You deserve it
~ Callie ~