Tumblrology || A girl's guide to everything.

Being girl's, we meet a lot of scenarios that we don't know how to handle. In this book, there will be advice, DIY's, and many other things that make sure you have the best life you can.

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31. A girls guide to society


 

 

   Life is never easy. Or is it fair. You want to give up, I know what it feels like but don't let yourself go. Just remember. Whenever you fall, I'll be at the bottom to catch you because you mean everything to me and I love you! :)

 

A girls' guide to fitting in-

 

○ This is the one thing that can drive a girl down a bad path. Why try to be like everybody else? Sure, maybe there's a trait you want like her pretty hair color, or nice clothes but in the end it isn't what's on you that defines you. It's who you are and a depressed, broken girl doesn't shout happiness. I know it's hard to come out of the darkness, I would know but once you do it'll be so much better. Wouldn't you much rather be yourself, a girl whose so unique that everybody loves her, than a girl that people have already seen a couple million times? I know it seems like you have to change in order to be noticed but I promise that's not it. You want to hear a story? I spent 4th through half of 8th grade trying to be popular and acting like somebody I wasn't. Did that get me attention? Yes, but the wrong kind. The negative attention that nobody wants nor needs. For the last half of 8th grade, I had gotten so sick of trying to be somebody I wasn't and I gave up. I pushed away everything the real me wouldn't want and you want to know what I did? I didn't act like myself. I was myself! And there's a difference! I was happier and things began brightening for me! I mean, just look on my Instagram! I'm getting noticed my famous people, I've gained more friends and found out what makes me happy and that's all you need to do! Find what makes you happy, what brings you peace in serendipity. I know it's hard and you feel like people won't accept you but I promise you if you're yourself many more people will accept you than those who don't. So take a chance and show people who you really are! You'll whole life will turn down the better path :)

 

A girls guide to personal struggles-

 

○ Where do I begin? Personal struggles are the worst, because most times you convince yourself your happy. In fact, most of the times I've mumbled explaining how I was finally happy, I never was. There's a difference between pushing the struggles behind a barrier of happiness and actually being happy. Every piece of you. Barriers break eventually and you're bombed with all this self doubt and self hate and who likes the feel like utter shit? Certainly not me! There are many things to do that can make you happy. One, don't pile stress on yourself. Organize a way through everything and don't try to do everything at once. Two, find music that makes you happy. Music you can listen to whenever you're sad. (Mine is 5 Seconds of Summer and After Romeo). Also, find a mechanism. Something to do when your sad or mad. Don't ever hurt yourself. If you must, cry it out. That's what I do! Every. Single. Time. Crying feels a lot better then you think. A no, not crying and hurting yourself. Nobody deserves to feel a pain like that. No just cry and let all those bad feelings slip away with those tears. Think about all the good things that will happen in the future, all the good things that happened that day and the great things that have happened in the past! It helps much more then I thought! Just whatever it is, you'll get through it and I'm always here to talk :)

 

A girls guide to growing up-

 

○ Nobody wants to grow up and it's nauseating to think about but thats the thing. Don't think about it. You're just freaking yourself out over something that just happens. Growing up seems freaky, I know but if you focus on what the future will be like, then of course it'll turn out bad. Why? Because if you don't focus on the present and grow in the present, then you won't be prepared for the future. You may think things will fall apart, or ask yourself how will you do a certain thing your parents do but by the time it comes, you'll be prepared. Nobody wants to grow old but it happens. You can't change it, no matter how much age rewinding concealer you put on. Just live for the moment and do what makes you happy. I promise you'll be ready! :)

 

 

 

 

Do me a favor? Tell me your ultimate goals in life.

My ultimate goal: To save a life, more if possible :)

 

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