The Truth

It's not a story. It's life. It's not made up. It happened. It's what some of us face each day. Yet, we don't talk about it-- This is a place to confess. Maybe this movella won't get that much attention because it's not related to 1D. But there are somethings that I wish to share. Somethings that I bottled up inside. I tried to run away from everything. But you have to stop for a gulp of air, right? I know that there are people who have hidden so much pain that you want to escape it, but you can't. They say, "Talking helps". But who to talk to when you know you can't trust anyone? So, I'll try to help. If you have something to tell, something to share. Comment below. If you're scared and don't want anyone to know, email- rockkarolla@gmail.com or rachel.juden@hotmail.co.uk ; we promise you that whatever you tell us will be between us. No one will ever know what we talked. It's okay if you don't trust us. But we never tell other people's secret. That we assure you.

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4. From Anonymous

I'm going to change the names of the people involved. One of my best friends (Jess) is now going out with a boy (Dan) in the year above us. Dan has been talking to Jess on facebook all year flirting with her and so on. Jess was trying to avoid him at school but she actually admitted a couple of days ago that she liked him now. They are now boyfriend and girlfriend and she seems happy. I'm happy that she's happy but the thing is i don't like Dan. He smokes and he's friends with people who probably take drugs. I really don't want him to influence Jess because that would be really bad for her. I'm too afraid to say anything to her because basically I'm saying I don't like her boyfriend. I could tell another of my friends (lets call her Emma) who is actually closer to Jess than I am but she'd probably think i was being horrible about Dan and Jess and tell Jess what I'd said as well. I don't know what to do! Whether to just leave it and hope that Jess will realize it or to do something. The other thing is I'm really, really shy even with my friends because last year something really bad went on between me, Jess and Emma and I'm only just regaining their friendship and making it like it was before.

 

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To Anonymous,

I can see your worry. And I can see that you're worried about your friend but if you make a move, you might just lose her. I understand completely.
When girls fall in love, they fall crazily in love and they make wrong choices. Anything you say to Jess, will actually make her get closer to Dan, hence making the situation far worse. Because girls like to date guys who they're not allowed to. Whatever you say to her will make her think that you're jealous of her. And it is likely that Emma might double cross you.
Wait for sometime. There will come a time (in this case, I'm thinking soon) when she'll get insecure. Use it. When she feels insecure, she's at the weakest (it sounds bad but trust me) and she'll listen to whatever other people have to say about him.
The major problem is that she likes him or maybe loves him. And he smokes and presumably takes drugs.
It is a very big problem. And there's nothing you can do but wait.

I would recommend you to talk to a counselor.
Just slowly make her realize that he's all wrong for her. Drop subtle hints to Emma and search for signs that Emma doesn't like Dan as well (check her facial expression when he comes or you guys talk about them)
One other thing you could do is express your worry over the 'unhealthy habits' and tell your friend (that if she loves him) ask him to stop it because it's bad for his health.

I'm sorry if I couldn't be of that much help. Thank you for writing to us. It was a big step on your part.

-The Truth Team

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