Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

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29. Why is she in my way?

My Boyfriend and his a little too friendly girl bestfriend

Analogy *You and your totally hot boyfriend Chad are hanging out at his house when the door bell rings and he gets up to answer it. "OH MY GOD CHAD!" Talia, his best friend, screams wrapping her arms around his neck pulling herself a little too close to your boyfriend. He genuinely hugs her back wondering why she's being so extra knowing that you are here, when usually she isn't when ever your not. She eventually lets go of them and slightly acknowledges you.

"Hey Talia" You say greeting.

"Ugh, Hey. Chad lets go up to your room for a minute and we can leave your girlfriend to watch tv or something." She says harshly rolling her eyes at you then batting hers at him. At first you thought nothing of it they're just friends anyway. Until you later realized that this wasn't the first time she'd done this on days that were set a side for you and him and you filled up with anger. He was yours not hers. And she'd have to get over it.

Lets talk about when you thought you'd finally sealed the deal with someone completely perfect. For one, nothing is perfect. And Two, he'd came with a package deal. If you were anything like me, the slightest thing could get you jealous and this girl was not going to ruin your guy. But in situations like this, you have to know: "She knew him first." With that being said, you can't try to push her away.

This is just as if he had regular guy friends. He chose to hang out with them instead of you. Or the other way around and his friends begun to hate you thinking that you drew a wedge between them when you didn't. It is all territorial.

But when his best friend is a female it's a whole nother shibang. Because, girls do things that guy friends don't do. Which is why I'm pretty sure you all have read many stories or seen many tv shows where the guy dates a girl and his best friend secretly had a crush on him and you get all paranoid. Which is a good thing... because I do too.

But what you must understand is every person does not fall under the typical stereotype. Maybe this girl just wants to spend time with her friend just like how you want to spend time with your friends. You have to see it from all sides of the issue at hand.

For Example, Have any of you ever had a friend that dated a guy and flew head over heels for him and stopped talking to you and the rest or your group of friends? Meanwhile you're thinking she traded you for him and its all his fault. When it's not. He'd just happend to fall in love with her and makes her happy. So don't judge her for that or try to ruin something that makes her happy.

And in this specific situation, that's what is happening on the other side of this. You make him happy obviously and his Girl that is his friend misses their friendship so she tries to put in their quality time where ever it fits. But it's still not right if she is doing this to get rid of you which is where the talk comes in.

You have to man up.. well woman up (which ever floats your boat) and talk to him about it. You'll have to explain to him that you don't like how she always interrupts your time together when you dont interrupt they time you guys spend together (Him and her). And make sure you ellaberate what you mean by this and get your point across that you are not saying this to be clingy or to say that you are trying to break up their friendship.

And if he cannot relate with the situation and your point of view from it then maybe there is something more than their friendship at hand. Considering, you were only asking for a little bit of private time between the two of you.

Which this falls the same way if you are the best friend wanting time with your best guy or girl friend but cant because of their gf or bf. You have to state your feelings about this. Go to your boyfriend or best friend about this problem not the person getting in the way. If that makes sense.

Moral Question: Is it bad to like your guy best friend if he has a girlfriend? Should you completely mean girl out your boyfriends best girl that is a friend for liking him? How would you handle such predicaments ? [ Answer In Comments!! ]

Hope this helped. (:

Sincerely,

Tasha Muaah. Love -n- Ashes

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