Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

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26. Ms. Popular.. My Ex-BFF

As my guy best friend says.. this usually only happens with girls and their School drama's... which is true. I really hate how dudes never have the same issues we do... But I guess that's because us females always love to hard!

But back to the main topic, You know as well as I know that there is always the shy girl sitting at the back of the classroom, alone, no friends, etc. Well At one point I can tell you that I was that girl! and Yes it was HORRIBLE. Eating lunch alone.. but luckily I got my adoption basically in 4th grade. And when I say adoption I mean when some really cool chick comes along and swoops you up into her group and they crack open your shell. Great right? Best friends for ever... but that doesn't always happen.

For example.. let's use Andy99's situation as our Famous Girl Handbook analogy. Well the lovely Andy cracked open one of her friend's shells. Bff's forever.. but after awhile Her friend Julie (Not her real name) Started hanging out with the popular girls and dropped Andy and the others. Bummer right?

But Julie acts like she has NO IDEA she is doing it. but lately Julie's new friends are starting to not hang around her as much as they used to so she is around Andy a little more.

Of course... I believe this is going to happen, The group is going to completely drop Julie because either 1. They were using her from the get go. Or 2. She was never official one of them anyway.. so her membership with the barbies has expired. lol.

But, being the best friend you are, girlies, you want to help pretty Julie because...well... she was your friend and you want to still hang out with her.

Personal Experience: So I was dating this guy (Who I currently still am dating.) and my friends were always talking about how he was changing me and that I was shrugging them off every time he came around. and only talked about him. But being the person I am I had no idea what they were talking about so I just denied denied denied.(Speaking of which I really need to write a chapter about losing your best friend to her boyfriend.)

^ and that's what's gonna happen if you bluntly confront her. She's gonna be like, "Oh no I'm not. OMG I can't believe you said that. Your just jealous because I'm popular now and your not. How does it feel that the tables are turned?" Then you two are going to argue and your gonna be like Oh no she didn't then she is gonna loose you and your friends as friends and when ever the Barbies drop her she is going to have no one.

When that was not even the situation. She is just completely blinded by that new position she is in because she never got to experience it before. Like whenever I was dating by boyfriend. I was blinded by the new feeling of someone loving me the way he did that I didn't know how annoying I was becoming to my friends... Until they told me

If you really LOVE your friend, your going to have to take some drastic risk. Because, no one wants to be anyone's back-up plan.

Risk #1: Confronting her. It's a risk because, of course of what happened above, and also because of if the girls she is hanging around with now are the average stereotypical popular girls they are mean and bossy and B____y. So she is going to tell them what you said and they are gonna try to make your life hell from screwing up their medieval plans.

Risk #2: You wasting your time because she still doesn't believe a word you said.

Risk #3: Ignoring the situation and it gets worse and she gets hurt when you could've stopped it.

Either way.. your going out of your way to help her and she still may not see. So this is what you do.

Confront her. I know I know, "Tasha you just said what might happen." But that's the only choice.

But you have to be gentle with her. Slowly ease it into the conversation. And if it turns out like it did above.. she is not worth it. You have to let her realize for herself. Because, experience is a better teacher.

All I can say is be there for her. She will soon realize that you were always there for her unlike the others. But please... don't turn desperate and try to fight over her with the other girls. And NEVER force her to choose.. she'll just pick the wrong choice thinking their is no other option and pick something stupid.

Like me for instance. I chose my friends over my boyfriend and we broke up.. so I was single all summer while my friends were in love leaving me to live my love life through books. When if i would've thought about it I would've chose to talk to them together and came up with a compromise. Which works.

So whenever her new friend's drop her.. be there, support her, and make her realize that you were always there when they weren't. and that is how you win your friend.

 

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Sincerely,

Tasha Muaah

Love and Kisses. <3

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A/N: This is my first chapter since I've officially been back on Movellas. Where'd I go? Well... I was planning on leaving Movellas for good and going to Wattpad. But I realized how much I missed all my friends,fans, readers, and all the nice notes and request you all leave. I suppose after the whole competition thing I got really stressed out considering it was summer, I was panicking about school, the competition. And I was also getting over not winning the competition I entered (It was my first one). But I'm officially back and writing. Thank you Andy99 for requesting this I really hope this helped. Just put yourself in her shoes and you'll understand it all. She just liked the way it feels to be noticed.

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