Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

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6. It was my fault :( BREAK-UPS

If you are really lucky, afraid of commitment, found the right one, don't date, or are usually the break upper.... You experience breakups. Dudes have have that stupid chip or something in their head that says, "Dude it's getting serious, lets be a douche bag and end it right now even though you see she is completely in love with you. More and likely you wont find anyone better!" I know, boohoo he broke up with me.. But if He broke up with you. He may not be as much into you as he was before so on another hand its good because he isn't caring on dragging out the relationship knowing he doesn't like you as much as you like him. Now wouldn't you rather him breaking up with you than cheating on you?

 

He Cheated...

Considering I am one of those girls that are really serious about my relationships I make sure all of my boyfriend's know, "If you cheat on me, I'll cheat on you.. If you hurt me, I'll hurt you... If you don't care, I don't care.." As simple as that. But cheating is the cowards way out. YOU NEVER open a  new book with out closing the other. And the stupidest thing I've ever heard of was an open relationships.. I understand friends with benefits. But seriously guys.. open relationships are code for okay I'm gonna tend to you.. buy you stuff while you go make-out with other girls, have sexual intercourse, blow off our dates... But I still get the luxury of being called your girlfriend. What Is that? Stupid... Seriously, don't share your boyfriend with no women.. because sooner or later your gonna get jealous. (haha did you read my previous chapter?)  If he wants to be with another girl.. cool... let him have her. Because if he didn't care enough to be faithful you don't care enough to go out with him anymore. No girl should depend on being with a jerk punk dude just to be happy. Cheaters are cowards. Personally, I'd suggest tearing your anger off on him. And for some INSANE reason girls don't go after your boyfriend they go after the slut he cheated with. No.. YOU go after Him.. But nothing is wrong with fusing the both out :)

 

Yeah girl, I dumped him!

Most girls dump their boyfriend if they aren't feelings the relationship, He is not faithful, You are into someone else, You or him are moving, Or you just want to be single. But really wanting him back after you broke up with him is crazy. Then some girls expect him to be over you when you are dating some dude but the minute you find out he is dating another girl you go all ex-girlfriend ballistic. You can't ruin his love life just because he has moved on and you have'nt it was your choice you two broke up anyway.

 

Getting over a bad break up

To me personally I think breakups are an excuse to gain weight. Haha the common break up tools are: Ice cream, tears, sad movies, music, and best friends and lots of food. You DO NOT want to be alone because, you could do something completely wild and crazy that you will regret later. That's why you have best friends to keep you from doing crazy things like; Having sex, making out with someone gross, ruining your reputation, committing suicide, going to his house and beating him up with your shoe, having sex with the jerk that ruined you life, or possibly doing drugs. Girls and hormones are a bad combinations when you get broken up with... And don't let you be on your period. Disaster in the making ladies.

 

I feel like girls don't realize (I know i don't) that their are more guys and the guy that you were dating is probably a douche. *Real life analogy* I remember one time I was dating this guy and he was acting like he didn't care so I was too and I got mad and like hung up the phone. And was like crying my eyes out because from that moment I knew the relationship was going down hill. So I called my friend at like 1:00 in the morning crying because I had no one to talk to and I knew If I didn't I was gonna do something crazy. So she was like "It's not like you guys broke up.. I mean they did lose the game and I'm pretty sure he is in one of those moods. Just give him space, dry your eyes so you wont get bags, go to sleep, and just call him in the morning." And I felt a lot better

 

Moral: Don't let them walk all over you, Have good friends not fr-enemies to be their for you, eat yummy ice cream :) , and don't blame your next because of your last THEY ARE NOT THE SAME PERSON!!

 

Sincerely, Tasha Muaah Hugs + Kisses <3

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