Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

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21. First Dates.

First dates are the biggest steps in the dating universe. First dates range from just hanging out, going to prom together,  going out to eat, going to a party together or going to one another home and hang out.

 

In order to stay completely sane during the date you must pull yourself together. And by pull yourself together I do not mean act all weird and like a totally different person. That is extremely bad. Obviously if he asked you he likes your personality, or visa versa with you asking him. Therefor don't go around acting like a maniac,with pounds of unnecessary make-up and heels that make you walk  funny in. And if he doesn't like the real you he isn't the right one. But although if you do decide to act like someone you aren't and he likes you, then he is falling for someone who is not who they say they are. Kind of like the show Catfish, except they know what you look like.

 

Having conversation is how you too get to know each other. But ofcourse if you too are all ready friends (Chapter 10) And you two have a thing dont act weird just because its a date. He likes you because of how you normally are infront of him. But anyway conversations. Im known for being really shy during conversations so pay close attention! You have to break the ice. Be confident and don't be all shy. Try to keep the conversation going.

*analogy* "So how are you Ryan?" "Good" "So you play football" And Ally smiles. "Yeah quarter back." "Tell me about it" See good. Even if you aren't a fan of football it's a good way to start conversations and get to know each other. Questions are a good way to go with conversations. Asking about this and that could bounce off to other things. But remember. First dates are not the time to talk about exs, politics and religion? I mean maybe a little but don't over power the conversation with them. Its supposed to be about you and him.

 

Be Flirtatious.

Flirting with your date is a great way to show your playful and humorous side. (Check chapter 3)

 

Be a good listener.Just as important as asking great, open-ended questions is how you list to your wonderful date when he is talking. Make sure the conversation is going back-and-forth flowing by showing interest in your dates answers. Instead of just waiting for him to stop talking so you can talk

 

PUT YOUR PHONE AWAY

That's so annoying. If you are sitting on your phone playing angry birds or 4 pics one words or something you will make your date feel so uncomfortable and unimportant. Well ofcourse unless you are showing him something. Don't be texting, tweeting, and updating your status about how great your date it. Because in the snap of a finger it can go from up hill to him leaving from you ignoring him.

 

Moral: Don't lie about crazy stuff for no reason. Be sure to plan ahead. Such as a couple of start off questions and what you are going to wear. And don't go out of your comfort zone on the first date.

 

Tasha Muaah Hugs && Kisses! (: oxox

Thanks to Ice141 for suggesting this chapter. I finally got it done. And good luck on your date! Thanks for reading! Remember Fan the Authors, Like the book and Fav it!.

 

 

 

 

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