Girl Handbook

Girl Handbook is a guide to the mind of the average Teenage girl, pre-teen, and even adult women. And the crazy hormones girls have. Girl handbook expresses the troubles of the average girl , Girl codes, and the things that normal teenagers just dont want to talk about! This is a book full of how to fit in, the troubles of moving, and how to go from the outsider to the leader. The ups & downs of mother nature. And how life just isnt fair sometimes.

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27. Don't change for ANYONE!

Everyone should stand out. Be different from the people around you rather than just another clone of the popular girl. You should be proud to stand out, rather than crushed by someone else right? Bullying happens because people are different. But when you just think about it for a minute, you realize that no one is worse because of that. If we were all the same imagine how boring life would be! (That is extremely boring!!)

So. Uniqueness, why should being unique hurt you? Anyone who thinks its okay to hurt you because you unique is completely out of order. End of. No matter if their your friend, boyfriend, whoever. They are wrong. If you cannot talk sense into your 'friend' and tell them they are hurting you. They are not worth it. They could be, and probably are a fake friend.

 

Bullying, bullying is different to someone simply making a one off remark. Bullying happens again and again, over and over, relentless. If someone is bullying you about being unique, then it is time to take action. If you are sure they are doing it deliberately to hurt you, then don't bother telling them to stop. In most cases this will just encourage them and they are seeing a reaction from you so they get more fun out of it. Just don't bother. If you show no reaction to them they most probably will get bored.

Often you can sort out bullying for yourself. If you want to. You must simply stay exactly how you are do not change for anyone! Then just blank them completely as if they are not there. They're not worth listening to! Everything they say to you let if bounce off and not hurt you. When the

y are trying to hurt you imagine something funny about them! Something that will make you stand tall. If they are talking to you try completely ignoring them and start talking to someone else. Hold your head high embrace your uniqueness and simply show them that at least you are happy with yourself the way you are. Nothing can bring you down. And most importantly you must believe that. Or else its not going to work. Know that you are right! And that your not the b---h who's making everyone else's life a misery

 

If it is too hard for you to sort it out for yourself maybe tell a friend you KNOW you can trust. Having a friend knowing what's happening and on your side can be quite comforting and  may help you be able to tell an adult what's happening, it can often be quite scary on your own. In the end whatever happens your the one with the life that's actually worth living.


 

~Elrénia xoxo hope this helps! If not then... Actually I don't know! Enjoy anyway!? *hopeful face*

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