Relationships and Friendships

How boys work and how friends work. Also ways to catch a boys attention! Not to be missed girls!


1. Relationships - How to get a boys attention :)

1.Check His Crushability

Before you do anything, evaluate if this is someone worth crushing on. I’ve been attracted to a guy, spent 10 minutes in his presence and was absolutely repulsed by his personality. Ask around. Who are his friends? Does he go to church? You can save yourself a lot of time and heartache if you do a little research.

Some times all you have to do is observe. How does he act towards people who aren’t as popular as he is? Is he nice or a jerk? Very simple gestures say a lot about someone’s character. Be sure he’s a good guy before you decide to let your feelings take over.

Do Not Chase Him

I know it’s tempting. If you're like me, you can be a bit of an overachiever. When we see something we want, we go for it. However, we have to restrain ourselves from asking guys out and making our intentions too obvious.

Society makes it look like women who ask men out are empowered, but nothing could be further from the truth. Overly eager actions smack of desperation, and that’s a major turn-off. Guys like a challenge. Anything gotten too easily won’t be worth keeping in the long run.

I can tell you from first hand experience that when a guy really wants you, he will go through fire to get your phone number. They love it. Don’t ask me why. It’s a Braveheart thing.

3. Modesty = Mystery = He’ll Want to Know More

Lots of girls will tell you to show a little leg or cleavage to catch a guy's attention. It works. He’ll notice you all right, but for all the wrong reasons.

It’s no secret that boys are visually stimulated. If you show off all your goodies, then that’s all he’ll think you’re good for. Instead of seeing you as an intelligent, gorgeous girl, he'll be preoccupied with what you look like naked.

There are plenty of ways to dress hot without exposing yourself. So leave a little to the imagination. The more he has to hunt, the more he’ll want to know.

4.Be a Friend

Someone once told me that the best way to make friends is to be a friend. A smile and a "hi" can go a long way. I know it’s hard to fathom when you can barely breathe around him, but try to focus. Sitting next to him in algebra before class starts is a perfect time to turn, smile, and say, “Hey, how’s it going?” It's called "breaking the ice".

5.Try the Group Thing

Ever since I Kissed Dating Goodbye came out, I’ve always thought that group dates were lame. How in the world can you get to know someone with three of his friends hanging around? But when it comes to crushes, this is a fantastic way to get to know him in a less pressured situation. His circle of friends plus yours create a comfort zone. You'll both be in your element.

If you get a chance to participate in anything where he’ll be involved, go! Try it out. Expand beyond what you've always done and join a new club. If he doesn't end up working out, you may discover a love for a new subject or sport you never tried before.

6.Get a Life and Live it

Nothing is more attractive than someone who fully embraces her life. Let him see you hanging out with your friends, singing in the choir, or doing whatever you do best. If he sees how much you enjoy yourself, perhaps he’ll want to join in the fun.

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